It's All Shits And Giggles Until You Remember You Should Definitely Be In Therapy

there's probably a better way of wording the last part but like come on it doesn't matter if we're all the same to fascists

I have ranting to do!!!

I am so so so tired of fandoms mostly ignoring all the F/F ships, I myself love some M/M, and if it's truly well written I will even read some F/M, but why, in the ever loving fuck, do we ignore the sapphics????

I was reading ao3 (as one does) and I was trying to find an F/F fic for a fandom that has over 500 THOUSAND FUCKING FICS, and all the sapphics ones were either very short, poorly written, or were shoved into the background. There were only about 35 fics longer than 2,500 worlds that were solely focused on sapphics.

I genuinely can't wrap my head around why we neglect sapphic stories so much. There are so many interesting and heartfelt pairs of women that almost no one does justice to, and I don't know why. Obviously there will always be more M/M representation because we live in a patriarchal society, so the characters are wayyyy more likely to be fleshed out. But why oh why can we as a community write good sapphic material with out over sexualization or shoving them into the background and then quietly killing them off screen?????

I just want to be able to filter for F/F and not go from 1,000 fics to like 20, I want to be able to be picky, but I literally can't.

IDK what else to say, I'm just a little sad and disappointed, if anyone has any sapphic fic recs of fandoms that focus on sapphics without killing them in the end, I am all ears.

Sometimes I feel like a wife in the 1940s waiting for my husband to come back from War while I wait for my moots to interact with my posts

AHHGAHAHAHAHAHA

If I see that goddamn flesh hat boy on my feed again, I will be going to prison

Literally love getting to be a freak with my friends (not like that!), oh you have something incredibly off-putting to say? I would love to hear it! Weird ass conversation about something NSFW, I'm kicking my feet and giggling.

“do you know where you’ll be headed in 5 years?” no. but i do know about themes and motifs. and friendship. and putting garlic on everything

So like, this is kinda stupid, and if you know me in real life, no you don't, buttttt.... I have something to complain about. So, someone told me today that I looked like a "masc lesbian", now I am a lesbian, but I love femininity, and over the past few days it seems like more and more people have told me I have this kind of masculine quality about me, and I, Fucking , HATE IT. I want to be feminine, I try to be feminine, I loveeee feeling pretty, and my question is, do people see me as masculine???? I try to wear pretty clothes when I feel up to it, and I do my makeup and I have long, big hair, what the fuck about me is masculine??? This is not hate for my lovely masc lesbians, y'all are fun as hell and I'm glad you're comfortable in your own skin, but God I hate being perceived as masc, it makes this weird feeling settle in my chest. Is it the fact that I can put my emotions on hold when necessary?? Is it my affinity for leadership??? Is it because I'm a STEM kid??? You can be feminine doing all these things, but people keep telling me I seem masc. Part of me wonders if it is because I have a more masculine build because I do sports, but like, my waist curves like a woman, my back problems are a result of my chest, I have a fuck tone of muscle and fat on my thighs, I cannot for the life of me see myself as masculine, but so many people have told me this.

IDK how to finish this off, but, if u see this pls give me ur opinion on this topic if u feel like it.

you get to fuck one (1) woman you want. any woman. who are you choosing

Trick question, I'm the woman getting fucked (the evil lady from incredibles 2, she was so fine!!!)